I’ve told J that I’m interested in trying some light D/s but I’ve yet to find the words to describe what I’m really looking for. Reading all your blogs has awoken my taste for it, I just don’t know what my tastes are exactly. I suppose I’ll just have to experiment and see what takes my fancy.
A few ideas:
- He chooses my outfits some days, e.g. Today I want you to wear…
- Domestic/house duties, possibly in the nude, dressed up or in costume
- Role play, e.g. Prostitute/john, strangers in a bar, teacher/student, etc.
- Dirty talk and name calling, some degradation/humiliation, making me beg, etc.
- No underwear rule outside the house (so he has easy access to me at all times, whenever he pleases). This could also extend to bras (although I often do this already ;-))
- When sitting in his presence, must keep legs apart at all times (again, for easy access)
- Only allowed to play with myself with his permission (this would be tough)
- Naked at all times when at home and without visitors (this is already me in summer time)
- Sit on the floor at his feet when he’s on the couch/at his desk
- Blow job on arrival when he gets home or if I get home after him
- Choking/breath play during sex
- Rough sex/rape fantasy
- Anal (which we have already done but not with him demanding/claiming it as his right).
Hmmmm… That’s all I’ve got for the moment. I suppose I’m thinking start simple so I can see what I like and also so he doesn’t get frightened off (he’s never done anything like this before). See where it takes us.